Showing posts with label Shavar Ross. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Shavar Ross. Show all posts

Saturday, May 29, 2010

The Tragedy Of Gary Coleman's Existence

CLEVELAND - For the past 20 years, one of the most well-known cautionary tales of modern pop culture history has been the travails and tragedies of the child actors of TV's Diff'rent Strokes. While it is true that the dark side of Hollywood helped facilitate their downfall, it doesn't compare to what life dealt Gary Coleman long before the world had ever heard of him.

Such a shame.

Coleman, a seminal figure of 1980's pop culture as well as my own childhood died yesterday at the extremely young, yet shockingly old age of 42. Since he was born with a cognitive kidney disease, he always seemed fated to die very young. Many people claimed that they were surprised he lived as long as he did, but in actuality, I'm not so sure that Gary Coleman ever lived at all. By that I mean this: his disease caused him to forever remain very short in stature, as an adult he was just 4' 8." Saddled with that hurdle, he was already at a disadvantage. Add in the fact that after Diff'rent Strokes ended its television run in 1986, his life became one tough break after another.

His earnings from the show had totaled into the multi-millions, yet he was flat broke as a result of reckless spending and irresponsible management by his parents. This destitute status, combined with the very limited roles he could play due to his size made him something of an irrelevant figure in show business. He was seen as the "washed-up" has-been whose claim to fame was his iconic "Whatchoo talkin' bout, Willis?" catchphrase immortalized on Diff'rent Strokes. By the start of the 1990's, Coleman was already becoming a punchline amongst comics and the general public. He began to behave bitterly and almost always appeared angry. As his former co-stars suffered through drug addiction, criminal charges and the fallout from various other poor choices, Coleman's torture continued to be what he was born with; a major health setback that would compromise both his social life as well as his ceiling as an actor. Indeed, he burst onto the scene in the mid-1970's, pint-sized and cherubic and filled with stunning comedic brilliance. He hadn't even reached the age of 10 and he was already doing guest spots on major television sitcoms as well as co-starring in several television movies.

When NBC's Diff'rent Strokes ascended in popularity as the 1980's dawned, the precocious and quick-witted Coleman was the cornerstone of its appeal. Every one of my peers and cousins enjoyed the series and its revolutionary premise of two poor Black kids being adopted by a wealthy White businessman. To myself and my best friend and cousin, Coleman's Arnold Jackson was an icon. From his zingers to his afro with the "driveway part" in it, he was something of a friend and peer that we never could meet. Though Coleman was about a decade older than us, he always seemed to be on our level age wise.  To this day, we talk about Arnold and Willis and the unseen-but-still-ominous bully The Gooch as well as Shavar Ross' Dudley.

Coleman was and will always be indelible.

I also thought about the ironic similarities between Gary Coleman and the great Michael Jackson. Both were devoid of a true childhood because of the demands on their pre-eminence in show business. Both were ultra popular in the early 1980's, then became the butt of an endless array of jokes. Both died at very early ages, then became heavily fawned over in death after nearly two decades of decreasing popularity. Of course, Jackson's popularity went above and beyond anything ever seen in pop culture history (with the possible exception of The Beatles), but the similarities are still stunning.

It's worth mentioning that Coleman was never an iconic actor in the vein of an Al Pacino or Denzel Washington. He simply played an iconic character on a popular television series. Nonetheless, he was still a force and an important figure in entertainment because what he created in Arnold Jackson more than 30 years ago remains memorable and influential today and beyond. It's a shame that his life during his final two decades was essentially in ruins. However, he made an impact and his legacy will endure.

I hope his tortured soul is finally at peace.

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Many Happy Returns: Shavar Ross Turns 38

CLEVELAND - Shavar Ross is a very understated man these days so there probably won't be much pomp and circumstance on his special day.

Today is the man's 38th birthday.

Ross, the actor/director hyphenate is a friend and mentor of mine so I feel it necessary to wish him a very happy birthday, and I hope he receives thirty-eight spankings from people all day.

It is a tradition on days like these.

In many ways, Ross doesn't seem to be more than two decades removed from his most well-known television role, that of Dudley Ramsey on the popular NBC series Diff'rent Strokes. He also doesn't seem to be 15 years past his pivotal role on ABC's Family Matters. In any event, his directorial career has taken center stage these days in his creative endeavors. He's also pursuing a degree in film which will only make him even more lethal.

Ross will celebrate 38 candles today in Los Angeles. I am about 3,000 miles away, but I still will be right there with him; vicariously, of course.

Happy Birthday, my man. May God bless you with a hundred more.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Ross Return Proves A Big Tease

CLEVELAND - The cable television event of the year was scheduled for December 10 at 10:30 PM and had folks all across the country waiting with baited breath.

Shavar Ross was returning to acting.

Ross, 37 is one of the most driven and talented people I've ever known. He's also a friend and colleague of mine, so I was more stoked than anyone to find out that the former co-star of Diff'rent Strokes and Family Matters was going to be on David Alan Grier's new sketch comedy, Chocolate News.

Call it the biggest tease in recent memory.

Ross has always been a very underrated actor. Since he added filmmaker to his expansive skill set several years ago, he's been "slept on" there as well. But his appearance on Grier's show last night was the equivalent of a dehydrated man being given a 100 gallon bucket with only a drop of saliva in it as opposed to being filled with water in the Sahara desert.

It left us all thirsty as heck!

In the episode, Ross portrays one of many "dysfunctional" folks trying out for a supposed new show called, "America's Next Top Black Preacher," ironic because of the man's history of being a real life pastor. His appearance was brief at best, but it was also a welcome occurrence after such a long absence. As for the brevity of his clip, Ross told me it was "whack."

The show is still surprisingly hilarious, though.

I realize I'm just being spoiled. I know that Shavar is a great actor and has played some of the best unsung sidekick characters in television history. It's going to take a little time before he's back in full bloom. But rest assured, he's not done.

This was just the beginning.


Thursday, November 27, 2008

Thanksgiving Reminds Us to Be Humble and Grateful

CLEVELAND - Thanksgiving arrives today for billions of folks all over the world today, in the midst of poverty, war and a myriad of other tumultuous circumstances. Us Americans in particular are suffering greatly as well.

But I am eminently thankful.

I am never one to gripe or complain about my circumstances, no matter how trying or frustrating they may seem at any given moment. I know I am extremely lucky to be who I am and to have the people in my life that I do. My daughters, my lady, my mother and my true buddies. In fact, I am lucky to have everyone that crosses my path in my life.

Seriously.

God thank you for the election of Barack Obama. A truly historical moment. I thank God for bringing Mr. Shavar Ross into my life this year. He has always been an incredibly inspiring force to me and I hope he and his family continues to be blessed. I also want to wish Mr. O.J. Simpson a happy thanksgiving. He didn't deserve his fate.

I want to express my gratitude to all of my fans across the globe. Thanks to everyone for making the irreverent series, a Date with Deante the brilliant controversy that it was and will continue to be. I am grateful for my own evolution as a person and a creative genius. I only hope to continue in the positive direction that I have been thus far.

I encourage everyone else to appreciate whatever it is they have in their lives as well. God is great.

Sunday, September 28, 2008

Check Out The VAR-city

CLEVELAND - I've mentioned my friend Shavar Ross before, but now I want to take it a step further.

This guy is a true mover and shaker!

What I admire most about him is just how driven he is. To me, that eclipses even his wide array of talents. I often call him the J.O.A.T. because he's a true "jack of all trades!" Besides being an outstanding actor, he's a ton of other things that Wikipedia would run out of room for if it were to get his profession factually correct.

Hmmm.

Actor, director, producer, photographer, pastor, blogger, editor, author, screenwriter, podcaster, husband, father, acting consultant, web designer, media mogul, entrepreneur, visionary ...

I can't remember the other thirty things!

Bottom line is, Mr. Shavar Ross is on his way back. Not back in business, because he never stopped being in business.

What could I possibly mean?

Good things come to those who wait, so ...

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Better Late Than Never

CLEVELAND - Sometimes, I discover great things long after other people. Last night was one of those times.

Lord Help Us is an outstanding film.

The Direct-to-DVD motion picture, released about a year and a half ago in 2007 was directed by my friend Shavar Ross and I must say, it really caught me off guard. The story (I won't reveal much about it) was terrific but more importantly, Ross' direction was outstanding as was the editing, particularly when one considers that this was his first feature (two short films preceded it). Ever the perfectionist, he modestly claims that it "could have been better."

Don't let that fool you. It's great fun.

Ross, 37 you may remember began his Hollywood career 30 years ago when he landed the role of Dudley Ramsey on T.V.'s Diff'rent Strokes, still widely considered his signature role, though he has done countless other projects since then.

I highly recommend Lord Help Us, and I hope to see him behind and in front of the camera for another 50 years!

Nicely done, Mr. Ross!

Friday, August 15, 2008

Ross Delivers Subtle Message in New Commercial


Filmmaker and actor Shavar Ross, a friend and colleague of Deante Young has just debuted his brand new commercial short, What Kind of Man?

Watch. Study.

What is the lesson here? Think about it.

Friday, August 8, 2008

The Ross Report Coming Soon!


Everyone remembers Shavar Ross as Dudley Ramsey on the hit 1980's series Diff'rent Strokes, but there is much more substance to this great and often underrated actor than most folks realize.

For the first time in history, Mr. Ross goes one-on-one with entertainer and filmmaker Deante Young and tells the side of his story most people have never heard. The Ultimate Shavar Ross Interview premires here at deanteyoung.com in August.

The edge of your seat is calling.